Claims of thousands of tickets a "rich marriage party" held in Jingdong a palace. Participate in the activities of men from across the country, personal assets have been billions of dollars, the youngest 26 years old, maximum 46 years old. On-site interview, a male guest said, "I am 40 years old, with the British science double degree, the current operation in Shanghai, a financial software company, also holds a U.S. green card. I know many people outside can not understand why those of us who look decent people will not have a girlfriend, in fact, emotionally, our situation does not look like the outside world as well ... imagine ... "
Rich, actually say that they are vulnerable, it seems incredible.
However, recently participated in an event, but accidentally made a point of view of the evidence.
It is the largest dating websites Lily network organization a "charm about" activities, mainly high-end members to solve their marital difficulties of large draft. According to organizers, the participants actively in Beijing, Shanghai, Nanjing and other cities as many as hundreds of thousands of women signed up to participate in online and offline, single women of the interview people, selected out of hundreds of layers of Glamour and then by marriage, psychology, fashion, and other review panels composed of experts in the field, from the fun personality, culture, etiquette, ability to inspect other aspects of cultivation, the last twenty selected Miss charm to Beijing to attend the Finals. When I went, out of competition from twenty to ten contestants.
I is not interested in fighting and repeated wins in these beauties, but sitting in the stands covered rows of the same color leather men in suits. Organizers told me that these men were the pick of the "public judge," everyone has the right to vote. They were originally to seek dating Lily network services to customers. When the judges must have excellent indicators: single, between the ages of thirty to forty, the annual income of not less than three hundred thousand.
For such a crowd, I could not help but observe a moment.
Outsider perspective, the activities of quite interesting. In addition to the general draft, the aesthetic of those indicators, the audience, "spectators" and the stage contestants are apparently also has other. These "public jury" when the rate prevalent in society in addition to the aesthetic vision of the future wife of a certain mixture of the selection criteria. Thus, in interactive sessions from time to time there will be a very lively scene. Some men are actively involved on stage, they obviously seen the world, and conversation filled with confidence, and report the name of the first there are some attractive aura: IT industry managers, investment executives, real estate owner, etc. and so on. From their enthusiastic participation, you can see the urgent expectations of a happy marriage.
I love and marriage in recent years, sustained attention, and has helped many people out of emotional difficulties, but generally speaking, the most to me for help some civilians, and in females. Rather, there are quite a few female problems derailed from her husband, successful money men will be worse, this is the general consensus of the community. For the first time to see so many successful career as a bachelor are to solve their own "marriage" and earnestly together, turn to the modern matchmaking service, operator of a new experience. They are still "hard marriage" issue?
Made me a little note that's an argument: from the perspective of humanistic care of marriage, "the rich are also vulnerable," before this and people see some of the most media publicity of the "rich marriage" ads in the high-profile shows and domineering different. This kind of laugh at the "low profile" is obviously also considered more rational argument. Friend told me, in this event two days ago, Lily network just held a "charm about" large-scale blind date activities, only the ticket is 23,888 yuan, resulting in nearly a hundred years, more than a million high-income participants, number of people much higher than the organizers expected.
A "bachelor" said frankly: the boss is very hard, usually work almost closed. Out a car, get off at some reception, business entertainment is on the restaurant for dinner, go to bars to drink. In these places, met the right people is difficult. Added that no time is an important reason, too rich is another inconvenience implicit distress. These rich people really see each other in the end see is their own money, or your own people?
Obviously there is some convincing words. Knowing my identity, to participate in the activities of another "bachelor" very honest about his own confusion. His younger than forty, a net worth of billions of dollars to the secular vision, can be regarded as the standard Diamond bachelor. I asked him the basic conditions for marriage, he cited a few, such as young, appearance, education, personality, artistic taste, cares, is willing to gave birth to a child, and so on, which is not unreasonable. I asked him what the most exclusive few, he said that jealousy is not so strong as to do business to social, as his wife does not like the constant supervision of the police.
In addition, previous emotional experience not to be too complex. Then he hesitated and said: too rich too expensive also excluded. I asked why? He said: too expensive, that is, parents have a certain official position, the short term is a good thing, but now known to official corruption, a bad case of trouble became corrupt, influence the future too. I nodded, then asked: What is wrong is too rich? Not more favorable to your business? He shook his head: and then a bed that is rich, Chiyikoufan, one can enjoy is very limited. Rich girl growing up too superior, too fragile not get along too afraid of the future.
He told me, as a lily of the VIP network member, the other introduced to him a lot of good girls, but each time he would pause before blind date, the largest tired "really" do not know the girl was really optimistic about him? He said he was a little "blind date anxiety" of the. I laughed and said: wealth could have been your greatest strengths, but, with this advantage to attract the girl you can not be assured that you would like to see more emphasis on the other side is that you own, regardless of your wealth; but you start the main signs is wealth; That in itself is a paradox.
After the event, organizers ask me any comment, several bachelor and asked me any suggestions. I mean, I talked about. Marriage itself is an investment, and may be accompanied by large investment for life. So important to do long-term investment, not only to insight, you also need patience. Sense of balance is important. Just choose the right, a big crowd, there is always a person is right for you. As for the difficulty of the rich and some blind date, but that now people can not just normal to see the money, and the maturity of this social rationality must take time.
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