Psychological needs of a harmonious marriage of five

First, the need to respect
Person's self-esteem from childhood, once damaged, will be pains. If you are respected, it will feel pleased and satisfied. Mutual respect between husband and wife, trust, love and deepen the basic guarantee for success. Reprimand or belittle any way belittle the lover will harm the other's self-esteem.

 Second, the need for autonomy and performance
Everyone wants to press their ideas and will work. This is independent of the need. Everyone wants to express themselves in front of others, maximize their talents and use their wisdom to create a substantial fruits of labor, so that their mental performance are met. Between husband and wife should always be made through language or behavior on the Fanghuan Yue, surprise, fascination, and then appreciate yourself.

 Third, the need for communication
Social life is a source of pleasure. Love with others that are not allowed to practice, not only can not guarantee the specificity of love, but also destroy the opponent's psychological balance, family life, tired of love aversion, the result can only marriage.

 Fourth, the emotional needs
Everyone's different hobbies, as far as possible to meet the psychological needs of each other and facilitate each other. Emotional needs with love as the center, will make a lasting love each other to maximize the psychological satisfaction. Otherwise, the sense of loss will remember with affection, dissatisfaction, annoyance, resentment will follow.

 Fifth, the need for catharsis
Love heart is not happy, always looking for people to tell about it, a spit faster. The object, of course vent his lover, husband and wife are each other as the best subjects for venting. Therefore, neither side should blame the other narrow-minded, or too the other nagging. The vent should take the initiative to accept each other, and further comfort, ease, resolve their inner pain, so that the other freed from inner conflicts, create a new psychological balance. This pain will vanish inside, marital relations will be further strengthened