Women married before you are five things that

1. Choose to love their men more important
Select the gate man to open marriage, a woman must go through the process.

 To learn more about the man is the first step of marriage. Do not put a woman feeling completely open to understand men, so men can not only expand access to the surface, but also can be compared to what you really need to know what your man.

 The real man is not able to look out from the outside. Women choose men in addition to the appearance, but also to understand the man's upbringing, growing up, friends type, hobbies, deal with the problem of attitude, a man dreams of the future, to fully judge a man's character, will and potential. There will also a moral man and very hard, despite the fact that the conditions are not good, but this man is promising, as a potential stock, as such a man should become the first woman.

 Choose a man than love their choice of a man you love is more important. Men naturally like a hunter, so that men become the captive of a man feeling from the heart, will resist. Women do not need to do such a stupid thing, but many woman happens to do so, so there is a lot of sad stories. This is not necessarily the fault of men, but the woman's silly.

 2. Learn to respect man's family members received
From ancient times, the world is full of contradictions-law world, this is an iron rule. Maybe some women will say they like a good relationship, and her mother's words, but statistically speaking, is a common-law struggle, and it is normal. Son by another woman, while the elders to learn and handle the relations between men, that how can blindly accuse others of how to make a woman fall into the emotional quagmire, the last injury is always a woman myself. Wise woman should learn in-law to terminate this conflict, because they might one day become a mother. Dear mother can learn to eliminate the contradictions like aunts. In short, learn to respect man's family members, in fact, to the women themselves to create a good environment. Of course there will be a woman said: Why these women to accept men in the family? Because in reality many men to please women in their families, men rarely have this happen.

 3. To accept a man's personality
Accept a man means to accept this man's personality, to accept the existence of the many things this man. Although there's not necessarily reasonable, however, to change a man by the characteristics of love is very difficult. A woman got a little older every day called for men to wash their hands several times, the man was very tired, but give birth to a lot of complaints. Their own standards blindly selfish men. Women love a man will take the initiative to change their own, but completely changed to meet the women themselves, only a woman's delusions. Woman before marriage, there must be such a psychological preparation.

 4. Correct his own personality
As with the above problem, the problem only from the perspective of a woman how to make the couple's life more harmonious. Everyone has their own personality or characteristics, however, and life in the process of interaction with men, women should learn to correct his own personality. Imagine if the other between men and women are required to adapt to their own, so that men and women can not live together. In fact, to some extent, the marriage is to give up its own characteristics of men and women away to find common intersection, the intersection of the more even more harmonious marriage. However, this does not mean that women give up their own away to meet men, but women need to fix their own to win a stable and harmonious marriage. Woman so, of course, also the men.

 Women need to take the results of such a choice, when in love, a woman is able to take this into consideration, I think many women will choose to work to support their own miserable life possible. This is rational, is also a woman should do. Work is not only the backbone of a man is a woman. Of course, many women look forward to her husband through the rich man's wealth to achieve their dreams, this is understandable. Only women need to take this selection.

 5. Deal with the relationship between marriage and work
Love is good, marriage is boring. When the wedding ended, love came from heaven to earth, romantic and also gradually replaced by reality.
Practical reality of the pillars of marriage need to maintain emotional stability. The face of insurmountable pregnant women, parenting, housework, a woman more love and energy to devote to the family and men. Man looking for more opportunities of development and practice. Thus, the development of men and women of the conflict between stagnant, boring life and the men face the temptation of the world is a contradiction. Faced with such contradictions, many women are always victims of the reality of marriage, and perhaps the conscience of man a woman would scold the dogs eat, but it calls no man to vent the feelings of compassion derailed mind. Crash or the collapse of the face of love, what is there to support their women?